The Journal — Formalwear

A bar or bat mitzvah is a formal religious and celebratory event with its own specific character. It occupies an interesting position on the formality spectrum — more formal than a cocktail party, less formal than a black tie wedding, and set within a religious service that has its own dress requirements. Getting it right means dressing with genuine respect for the occasion without overdoing it.

Funeral attire is the one dress code occasion where the rules exist entirely in service of someone other than yourself. You are not dressing to be noticed. You are dressing to be present — to signal respect for the person who has died and care for the people mourning them. The choices you make should disappear into the background of the day.

A beach wedding is one of the most visually specific occasions in the social calendar — and one of the most practically demanding to dress for. The setting is beautiful, the photographs will be remarkable, and the heat, sand, and salt air are working against you at every step. The suit you wear to a beach wedding needs to be considered specifically for that environment, not adapted from something you'd wear to a city office.

A destination wedding is a two-problem occasion: you need to look excellent for the wedding itself, and you need to accomplish this while traveling. The temptation is to pack for every contingency. The right approach is to pack fewer, better pieces that each do more work.